(DISCLAIMER: I do not sidemount dive, yet.)
I agree with the above. I've got nothing against or for sidemount diving, and I see it as a tool. However, I think it breaks down into a few groups:
1. People with a valid need for it. (Due to environmental restrictions and/or bad back or joints.)
2. People who think it's cool, but understand it's limitations and uses. (There is nothing wrong with this, I mean how much stuff do we do in diving for the sake of "cool factor"?)
3. Trend-humping Fashion Lemmings who latch onto the latest "thing" and overuse it, whether it is appropriate or not. Just because it's cool and they bought all this cool gear and wanna show off at the dive site, etc.
I really only have a problem with the third group because they are the ones you seem to be describing. Using a tool with no larger understanding of its use, limitations, advantages and are just into it "because it's the latest awesome thing and all the cool kids are doing it." See: "Apple and iProduct Hipsters". Same deal, IMHO.