The main purpose for wanting a lighter higher pressure tank, is from a SI joint injury thats never been fully resolved, that makes lugging tanks for shore diving more miserable than it already is.
I think you have your answer on carbon fiber tanks.
Let's talk a little about shore diving and gas logistics. Most of my dives are shore dives. I tote my own gas. I have chronic SI joint problems.
Under medical advice I started doing back exercises for my SI joint problems and have progressed to the point where I do deadlifts with a 315 pound barbell, usually twice a week. I started at 75 pounds, took a couple of years to work my way up. Most SI joint problems improve with lower back muscle strength. So my first piece of advice for you is see your doc or your physical therapist and if they concur then get thee to the gym every couple of days.
Typically I shore dive with a steel 120 (high pressure) and make one 75 minute dive rather than two 45 minute dives. If I'm planning a shorter dive I'll use a 72. Longer or deeper dives I add a 40cf stage or a 11 or 19 cf pony, or switch to an HP100 twinset instead of the 120.
Every shore dive has different logistics with the main variables being: horizontal distance to parking, vertical distance to parking, ground conditions, shore conditions, sea conditions, presence of a theft concern, availability of a dock or similar structure, and amount of gas required for the planned dive. If you want to be nice to your back you have to evaluate the dive and have a number of tricks available to try.
I use wheeled carts or wheeled tote boxes for some dives and position cylinders on shore before the dive. This does not work for mud, or stairs.
In rare cases I have used a canoe to bring in cylinders, where there is a nearby landing that has better vehicle access than the dive site.
If access to the site is poor I'll use smaller, lighter cylinders unless the gas requirements of the dive don't permit that.
Depending on the nature of the site I'll assemble my kit at the car or at the dive site, or sometimes half way in between.
Sometimes I have used multiple smaller cylinders. Sometimes it makes sense to throw one or more stage or pony cylinders off a dock or pier and retrieve them after entering the water, to reduce the weight carried during entry. For exiting I may pull them up using a line after or throw them up on the dock before, if the dock is low enough.
Most of my shore dives are solo or with kids. If you dive with a buddy that gives you some additional choices and in particular makes it more practical to don your kit in the water.