christo651
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First I am new to scuba as are my 2 "buddies". i am more safety oriented than most. I have countless hours of research and reading to help fill in my inexperience. I read as much here and on spearboard as I can that pertains to our type and location of hunting. "Buddy" numder 1 is more of a loner and when we land hunt, I only see him in the morning then again when its dark. this is fine for the land but I feel he wants to be the same in water. We had a discussion last night that ended in some hurt feelings. I say we should dive together as "buddies" as I am responsible for your life and you are for mine. He disagrees and says you are only responsible for yourself. Now I understand ultimatley you are alone, but the whole purpose of having a dive buddy is to have a redundant " me" just like the octo is there as a redundant regulator. I have read many instances whereby somebody gets flamed for not being a good buddy. I will check his gauges periodically and he does not like this. He says he knows to check his air, dont worry about him. He does not do any research as he is completely computer illiterate and likes it that way. He prefers to go on what he hears from others, which is similar to this except for the amount of information vs. finding people to talk with.
I am concerned for his safety. He thinks I am a chicken sh-t sometimes and he says if I do not follow then stay behind. Personally I do not feel scared or panicked but just have more of an incline towards coming home safe. He says I worry too much and all this research and video watching is bad for me and screwing with my mind.
Seems to me everyone diving should dive as their "weakest" link. Personally I do not feel the weakest link just more safety minded. I have been this way my whole life and have even earned the nickname Mr. Safety among those who know me well.
Well after this big arguement some harsh words were said. I personally feel I might discontinue diving with him permanently as I want a dive buddy who cares for my life as much as if not more than his own.
Now the overeacting part. He is coming down off of being sick for a week or so and he was tired and irritable when we started discussing, and maybe he will feel differently when he feels better, but I am concerned this is how he intends to dive. Any thoughts. Am I over thinking procedure.
I am concerned for his safety. He thinks I am a chicken sh-t sometimes and he says if I do not follow then stay behind. Personally I do not feel scared or panicked but just have more of an incline towards coming home safe. He says I worry too much and all this research and video watching is bad for me and screwing with my mind.
Seems to me everyone diving should dive as their "weakest" link. Personally I do not feel the weakest link just more safety minded. I have been this way my whole life and have even earned the nickname Mr. Safety among those who know me well.
Well after this big arguement some harsh words were said. I personally feel I might discontinue diving with him permanently as I want a dive buddy who cares for my life as much as if not more than his own.
Now the overeacting part. He is coming down off of being sick for a week or so and he was tired and irritable when we started discussing, and maybe he will feel differently when he feels better, but I am concerned this is how he intends to dive. Any thoughts. Am I over thinking procedure.