My last visit to the Our Confidence was 2008. We went in North of Eden, surface swim down to site. Someone had told us exactly where to drop, boom, down there she was. Followed by a long surface swim back. I'm sure there is less of her today - time & tides, storms & surge. Sadly my photo skills are still about the same as then. I just have more gear. I do remember the site was full of rubble and trunk fish, which I love. So silly.
Coopers Barge sits about 140 foot water in front of the desal plant just up the road. It's listed in the Bonaire Reef Smart Guide.
To OP - not a real wreck destination or large stuff place to dive. We love the no-schedule unhurried pace, sleep in - it is vacation, great food, lots of friends there. We have seen sharks, rays, manta, grouper, large snapper, but they are more the exception.