First unguided dive goes badly

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alicatfish:
Question for problem #2 Any thoughts on why he might have freaked? He thinks it could have been due to O2 toxicity (anxiety, irrational behavior). I think he just lost his head. And what should I have done differently?

In addition to the helpful suggestions already given, consider leading your dives until your husband becomes more confident and skilled. If he is able to do an honest self-appraisal, he won't be offended. :D

I agree with those who feel you've already learned quite a bit from this experience.

Has your husband learned from it?

Dave C
 
i also agree with breaking free . but only when true and ready .
 
in other words dont rush it
 
BTW you hubby may have freaked because it was your first unguided dive, and he may have felt pressure to be perfect and keep you safe, while not being totally comfortable...this is nothing for him to be ashamed of. I was nervous on my first one and it was a fresh water quarry with a max depth of 30ft!

Yeah, I'd concur. Freaking out is usually caused by trying to dive beyond your comfort zone. Get some more experience with easier dives or with more experienced buddies. Maybe try and find a couple of more experienced divers to team up with to try this dive the next time...
 
Hey there.

I've not been diving very long, but I may be able to help with your husband's panic attack. You see, right before I dive, and for a moment while I'm in the water, I experience the same thing. I feel overwhelmed, etc. Basically, the best thing to do, in my case anyway, is to stay on the surface, with my BC inflated so I float, for about two or three minutes, and just relax and get my bearings. In my case, I don't like the feeling of not being in absolute control of my position - the current is strong, there's no floor to stand on, etc.

My suggestion would be, under water, to have him make eye contact with you, and help him calm his breathing and then make a controlled, normal ascent with him.

Another good idea, if you haven't already, may be to take a Rescue course; it may help him learn to keep his head, and will certainly help you know what to do if this crops up again.

Sorry about your ears. Jeez, that sucks.
 
Granted I read through this thread quickly, but although everyone makes salient points regarding task loading and anxiety and MOD, something else jumps out at me right away. Perhaps it is because of my profession that I focused on it, but the fact you said your ears hurt AND STILL DO, worries me greatly. You need to see a doctor, preferably an ENT specialist and/or one with dive medicine experience, to figure out why they are hurting and make sure you didn't do any damage that will be compounded next time you go dive.
 
I want to thank everyone (if I haven't already) for their thoughtful responses. We just returned from a mini-safari which brough on many new challanges and we both handled them well and learn a ton. I was lucky enough to buddy up with the only other woman on the boat who happened to be a DM - possibly my first new friend made through diving!

My husband experienced one episode of "vertigo" (his words) and I watched as our guide calmed him though it. He continued the dive without incident. He also braved the Thistlgorm nightdive (which I skipped as I didn't feel up to a dive in strong current where my field of vision was impared) and declared it the best dive of the trip!

My ears were back to normal just a few short days after the "incident" and I didn't experience any issues at all on the liveaboard. I think it was a wise choice for me to skip that second nightdive since I was feeling tired and we all know that feeling rundown is often a precursor to getting sick.

Thanks again! How lucky I feel to have stumbled upon the forum. :)
 
That's great news.

It's always wise to skip any dive you do not feel up to for any reason.

Any pattern to the vertigo?

Pete
 
My buddy and I started doing our dives unguided recently, we learned to dive in the Red sea together, and did our advanced course out there. (We did Thistlegorm for our wreck speciality).
Diving unguided has been something we have dealt with very slowly and carefully, effectively treating the process as though we were doing our open water from scratch.
We've dived guided to 30 metres in Egypt, the deepest we've attempted in the UK is 8 metres so far.
We were aware when we started that we were going to have to get used to the less comfortable conditions of UK diving, so our process was as follows.

1) Very slow and gentle Orientation dive on an inland lake down to 7 metres with LDS, private session with just two of us and two instructors, vis was about 2 metres. Took advice from instructors and suggestions on how to improve our diving.

2) Re-visitted the same lake a few weeks later and carried out a 7m dive together with no guide, same conditions as before. Took our time arranging our gear carefully, and carrying out full buddy checks.

3) Organised and planned our first unguided Shore dive beside a local pier. Researched the tides and currents, spoke to a lds to ask about slack water times, were given incorrect advice as we later discovered, spoke to lifeguards on the beach and a freediver before the attempt to identify obstructions, hazards, marine life and topography.

4) Arrived at the beach just before slack water, discussed our planned dive profile, and brought a friend for shore cover and to watch our belongings. Performed buddy checks and entered the water. Our maximum depth was no more than 8 metres, and our max distance from shore around 50 to 100 metres, vis was about 4 metres.
After 45 minutes in the water, we decided to end the dive as we were disoriented by poor visibility (odd sensation putting your belief in a compass when you can't see anything else). We deployed our SMB, which went up diagonally (this was the point we discovered that the slack water times we were given were wrong), this was no major problem, but the smb did want to go in a different direction to us and that direction was under the legs of the pier.

From this experience we dived relatively safely, in a reasonably controlled situation, and learned more about our own limitations. We also researched the correct information relating to slack water, and now know that it begins 90 minutes before the peak tide in this area. I think we will be exploring this location a lot more until we are bored with it and feel ready to tackle a deeper dive.

Don't assume that you are competent enough to dive to the limits of your qualification on your first unguided dive, you have added psychological pressure of knowing that there's no DM or Instructor watching you for one, as well as this, you have to do your own research and risk assessments on the dive site you plan to dive.

Take your time and start with something gentle and shallow, there's a lot of interesting things going on at high tide just below the surface, lots of different crab species and Goby check out our pics. http://www.lonefox.co.uk/brightonpier/ (the vis was bad, so we didn't take many shots. We also had some issues with focus due to the sediment)
 
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