Wow, I stirred up a right hornet's nest!
As someone pointed out a few pages back, I don't use a dry-suit, so anything about dry suits, while interesting to read, actually has nothing to do with this thread.
As I pointed out myself ( and as someone else pointed out again more recently ), I'm not an experienced diver, I'm still learning ( aren't we all? ) and I'm fully aware that while ankle weights might get rid of the problem for me, they might not be the best solution. Maybe I just need to get more experience and I'll find that the floaty feet become less of a problem. That doesn't mean that ankle weights are immediately 'wrong', it just means they could help, maybe as a stopgap or something.
Personally, I view this as nothing to do with trim, and everything to do with large buoyant boots ( size 14UK 5mm 'cos the water is rather cold here ) and fins that seem to be, at best, neutral in the sea. I can't get smaller boots ( they won't fit ), I'd rather not get thinner boots ( it's too cold ) and I'm not in a position to change my fins right now ( I don't have the money ). So, 30 ankle weights becomes a possible option for me.
However, I dived again this weekend just gone and while I experienced the problem again, I handled it a bit better, and it wasn't as much of an issue. For the moment, I'm not going to buy ankle weights. Not 'cos they're evil and you can't call yourself a diver if you use them ( as some people seem to think ) but just cos I'm hopeful I can improve without them, handle the floaty feet, and save myself a bit of money. That said, if it continues to be very awkward for me, I'll try the weights out. I don't care if half the diving community looks down on me, as long as I'm comfortable and enjoying my diving...
Thanks to everyone for their feedback...
J.