for me the difference is do i see a newbie that is a uncordinated and clumsy or do i see a person that is in general a pita in day to day stuff (like agro driving or just slap happy in general) and do i want to be in a confined space and dependant on them. the first type of diver i can work with, the 2nd i avoid
Well said. We were all newbies once and we hopefully are better divers now. Some people pick up on things quicker than others while others are just jerks (IMHO) and you just want to steer clear of them.