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A great lover isn't one who can make love to a thousand different women, a great lover can make love to the same women a thousand different ways.
You need to spice things up!
They're not mutually exclusive concepts.
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A great lover isn't one who can make love to a thousand different women, a great lover can make love to the same women a thousand different ways.
You need to spice things up!
They're not mutually exclusive concepts.
While it's great that so many of you heterosexuals seem to be open minded I think that is wonderful. However, that is not the way everyone feels. The problem is not when we're under the water but on the surface. There are still states where our local dive club can kick us out and we have no recourse. So what you say who who would want to dive with those idiots anyway? That may be true but it could be difficult than getting charters on local dive boats etc.
As I posted earlier, heterosexuals advertise their sexuality all the time. Talking about your wife or boyfriend is telling everyone you're straight. You just don't realize it.
Also, this really hasn't come up but how many of you would feel comfortable around a diver who's obviously transgender?
But I seriously doubt any heterosexual people speak of their sig. others as a way to advertise their heterosexuality, it is just speaking about loved ones
I think this point has been miunderstood by swveral posters now. By advertising it isn't meant that the straight person is doing so intentionally, but is just incidentally confirming the default assumption that they are straight when they talk about their SO.
DiverBeth, talking about your wife or boyfriend is not advertising your hetrosexual, its just talking about your wife or boyfriend, and i think most heterosexuals think that way . I think you and many others are uncomphortable with your sexual preferance and it makes you uneasy and always thinking about it,even one a dive boat or a dive forum, you just cant let it go, your always trying to change someone's perception of being gay or how they should react to your being gay. Have a great dive next time you get under.