I generally agree with you chilly. I mentioned it purely because of the irony of my calling out people thinking the lake is just a place to bring the city with them to and get crazy in instead of appreciating it because it doesn't have the hustle and bustle of the city. The day after my comment those people are not just in my area, but in the street in front of my house with the volume on 11. Since satire is my favorite humor, I immediately thought of this as soon as I opened the door and heard it..
I got that we all live here and we all get to enjoy our lives, and sometimes we affect others with our events and sometimes others affect us and that is OK. For both locations, it's not so much the people but always the tunes on 11. I don't crank my electric guitar because I know not everybody is going to love that sound though I might have the right to play for a while. I don't expect them to grandma it and play it on 2 but there's a happy medium between inaudible and 11 which we rarely hit.
And I agree on the notifying the neighbors thing. Expecting it and planning for the party or the pool install next door, cement truck in the backyard, starting at 7 AM, etc is a lot easier to take.