I must have been asleep at the wheel........ When did side mount become a standard practice for rec divers? The last I looked, it seemed that the only guys that wouldn't die using it were a select few in cave country!
For the average vacationing diver, to expect them to switch to side mount, just to avoid sharing air is beyond the realm of practicality. I would love to switch my BP/W to side mount instead of using doubles. ( I have a trashed right shoulder that makes operating the valves pretty tough) But, I kind of like having the long hose when I am diving anywhere where I may need to have my OOA buddy may need air until they are securely on the boarding ladder. I have only had to do this once in crappy weather and it worked great. I had enough hose to allow them to get a firm grip without having to worry about getting creamed by the swim step. As far as pre-checking bottles, in places like Cozumel, the dive OP that I dive with gives you the option of them taking your gear with them at the end of the day. They slide into the dock in the morning and off you go. I like to keep mine with me, but most don't. It's set up when you get there in the morning. I have never had an issue with a short fill or a bad Nitrox mix from them, but I could see it happening. By the time you find out about it, your already underway. I am sure that if you had an issue with a tank, that there would be plenty of
opportunities to swap one out, even if they didn't have one on board. (another boat, resort shop, etc)
Gear choice, is just that a choice. For most of your average divers that only dive a couple times a year, to switch up gear makes no sense. IMHO, air sharing in the right circomstances makes sense. If nothing else it allows individuals to become accustomed to air sharing. Instead of having to wait until your in an emergency situation, wouldn't it have been more prudent to have at least some practice with the procedure?
DM's sharing air to extend a dive IMHO is not a good practice......