Consider DIR as a means to achieve a goal ... and as your skills and experience level progress, the goal continues to move to a higher level.
FishDiver:
I am acquiring the skills and attitude to become a DIR diver. I have the proper gear and I have read all the books. I have several DIR mentors but I have not taken fundies.
You're moving in the right direction ... but if "being DIR" is important to you, you've just begun down the path.
FishDiver:
Are all divers that consider themselves DIR fundies graduates?
No ...
FishDiver:
Are you automatically DIR if you have passed fundies?
Definitely not ... passing Fundies only means you have attained a requisite level with basic skills to continue learning. Many ... perhaps the majority ... of people who take Fundies did so to learn those skills, and have no desire to "become DIR".
FishDiver:
Can you dive as a peer with DIR divers without taking fundies?
Depends on the DIR diver, and the type of diving you're planning to do ... most DIR-trained divers I've met will do recreational level dives with non-DIR divers, but few will do tech dives with someone who isn't similarly trained.
FishDiver:
According to my mentors I have all the skills of a DIR diver. I need to learn a few of the DIR expectations of a team member.
Learning how to function as part of a team is the most important part of DIR ... and the most difficult to learn ... because it involves the ability to perform tasks while maintaining your awareness of what's going on with your surroundings and team mates. Being a DIR diver means developing the habits that make you a naturally functioning part of a team. That's why solo diving and DIR diving are mutually exclusive ... the habits you learn to excel at each will prove to be an impediment to excellence at the other.
FishDiver:
Can my mentors grant me the status of DIR or do I need the C-card from GUE?
The only reason you need a C-card from GUE is if you intend to progress to higher levels of GUE training. Lots of people who took Fundies don't have C-cards ... the class was originally given as a workshop, and didn't even have a "pass/fail" criteria, much less issue a C-card.
Whether or not a GUE C-card is relevent depends on your goals ... if you intend to pursue technical training through GUE, then the C-card matters. If not, then it doesn't mean a thing.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)