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Uncle Pug once said something like "take care of the wife first and then the wife will take care of you." This was followed with something about a new garage full of scuba toys. I think he speaks great wisdom that is applicable here. Leave the scuba stuff home! The marriage should be more important. If this seems like a sacrifice, the marriage is on the rocks already. So, do you love her more than yourself, or not?