Pay attention to how you breathe; how much air you take in, how long you pause before & after the breath, and at what rate you breathe.
Sitting at this desk responding to your post, my 'normal' breathing pattern is a small, partial inhalation (I dunno; maybe half or a bit less what I could hold?), a brief (? 1 or 2 second?) pause, a slow exhalation, then a more substantial pause before I inhale again.
Yet divers are often taught to breathe deeply, continuously and not 'hold their breath.' And when I tried pausing after exhalation (skip breathing), I did last longer on a tank but got a severe headache (likely due to CO2 retention). I'm around 6'1", close to 275#, a chubby mid. 40's guy & no athlete who often dives where an AL80 is basically what I can get. So, what to do?
I'll tell you what I do. Not saying you should do it. Not saying anybody else is going to agree with it. Just gonna tell you what I do.
1.) Cut my weight down a good deal over time. Even if you don't 'feel anxious,' I find I naturally tend to take a deep breathe to 'gird myself' for anticipated effort, and going underwater tends to trigger that response. Let...it...out. When I get rid of the extra air, and get more comfortable under water, I need less weight.
2.) While pausing after exhalation gave me a severe headache, I find pausing after inhalation for a longer moment I much better tolerate. While lets me drag out a tank a good deal.
But won't that mean holding my breath and risking over-expansion lung injury (e.g.: arterial gas embolism, pneumothorax or mediastinal emphysema) if I rise in the water column, consciously or unconsciously, especially in shallower conditions whether pressure change with depth change is faster? After all, in another thread, TS&M pointed out even pretty small rises in gas pressure within the lungs are hazardous.
3.) I examined the difference between holding my breath (which generally implies a closed airway; if you gripped me around the abdomen and squeeze, my cheeks might bug out or my chest hurt, but the air couldn't escape, because I'm holding my breath) and keeping my airway open. In the latter state, I can pause my inhalation (basically either keep my diaphragm down, or my chest wall raised, so my lungs continue holding the same amount of air), yet my airway is open. If you gripped me around the waist and squeezed, air would rush out my mouth, because I'm not 'holding my breath.'
4.) I further hedge my bets by taking fairly modest 'regular' breaths, not real deep, avoiding this approach when ascending, and be mindful in shallower water the hazards if the airway does close are greater.
Something I've not explored all that well is diaphragmatic breathing vs. lifting the chest wall; someone once wrote something to the effect he thought diaphragm breathing (lowering the diaphragm) drew air deeper into the lungs, working more effectively (presumably at CO2 removal). I don't know whether that's true or not.
Now, my only experience of breathing is...mine. Me. I don't have the 1st hand experience of being one of you so as to compare my breathing with yours and contrast. And I've read 'different' advice about how to improve SAC; from 'Don't think about it and breath normally' to 'Pay attention and manage your air usage; sip the air.'
And it's quite possible others will take my method apart as dangerous, idiotic, sub-optimal, etc...
I think it's added about 10 to 15 minutes to my dive time on an AL80 in typical aquarium-like Caribbean conditions. We're adults here.
Richard.