I agree that your friend is just simply wrong.
I also want to point out that, if you miss enough pre-dive checks to end up in the water with your isolator closed, you do NOT want to open it! You do NOT know what is in the other tank -- it may contain enough helium or oxygen that, when mixed with the depleted contents of the other tank, you can get hypoxic or tox. Discovering a closed isolator is a reason to abort a dive.
I also want to point out that, if you miss enough pre-dive checks to end up in the water with your isolator closed, you do NOT want to open it! You do NOT know what is in the other tank -- it may contain enough helium or oxygen that, when mixed with the depleted contents of the other tank, you can get hypoxic or tox. Discovering a closed isolator is a reason to abort a dive.