Clive, your account has left me speachless, I knew that there had to be divers there involved in that wall of water. I had only dreamt that any divers there would be strong enough to help save lives. Reading this only gave me the reassurance that I was right.
Also, I have to commend you on using level head survival for those persons on the boats lives. I am a Registered Nurse too, and you absolutely did the correct things. You made an assessment from head to toe, made a plan to control the loss of blood, you stablized the girl with your quick thinking, you definitely did right to give her the oxygen to provide her tissues with that important element, and you continued to monitor her condition on the way to a hospital.
We just recently had a train wreck in my area that had a serious chlorine leak, our hospital was involved in response to this disaster. I have to share with you that health care workers in these types of situations are not intentionally ignoring or not responding, but they have to follow a series of protocals to work amongst the victims. Most often there is not enough time to give out any pats on the back, unfortunately even amongst themselves. I have been in on some situations when we were frantically working, doing various things to save someone or more lives and afterwards we still don't tell each other on the team well done. I guess that is because we feel like we were just doing what we had to also. It also is very reassuring when you are new to any of these emergent medical events to hear that you did the right things. New nurses want to hear this too, and I imagine all new healthcare workers do.
SO FROM THIS VETERAN NURSE.....YOU ABSOLUTELY DID THE RIGHT THINGS!
God Bless you and your family. Do get the counseling, and don't stay out of the water. The best thing you can do is get right back in!