So here's the thing with dry suits and buoyancy... If you are properly weighted then you should be neutral with just enough air in the suit to provide adequate insulation (it is not just the undergarment that provides insulation, but the air that it traps, as well) and avoid the squeeze. As you descend, the air compresses and you need to add more to avoid a squeeze and for adequate insulation. If properly weighted, then adding that air to your suit should bring you to neutral and you shouldn't need to add air to the BCD. If you do put air into the BCD, then keep in mind that you are controlling buoyancy with BOTH the suit and the BCD, not just the BCD. As you ascend, you need to dump air from both. I've seen far too many divers who were told to control bouyancy with the BCD so they neglect to vent the suit on the way to the surface (or not vent it enough) and do very good impressions of a whale breaching the surface.
If you have to add air to the BCD, take weight off your weight system.
The exception is if you don't need weight when diving dry (think backplate and steel tanks). In which case, yes, it is better to use the wings to provide the bulk of the buoyancy. It is also nice to have an auto-dumping valve in this case as well. (Of course, I consider this the exception because I am usually in cold water with a heavy undergarment. If you are diving in warm water with a thin undergarment a BP and steel tanks, this might be the norm).
What you are trying to avoid is the potential for sending a large air bubble from your shoulders down to your feet and sending you feet-first to the surface. If you find that you are only adding a squirt or two of air into the BCD and you have no weight to remove, then you may find it easier just to use the suit for buoyancy. If you are just trying to use the suit and you find you have way more air in the suit than you need and no weight to remove, then you need to use both the suit and the BCD. It is a bit more difficult to manage both, but it greatly decreases the risk of doing a Michelin Man impression to the surface.