If I read your posts correctly, it seems that you are having problems in three areas: a) the total amount of weight you are wearing AND the distribution of that weight (between your scuba unit and your body), b) the fit of the scuba unit, and c) the structure, and general pace of the course.
DaK1:
Doing the entire bcd removal under water was difficult because all the weight was on the bcd and I had to really struggle and balance to stay in place on the ground. . . . At depth, when I started to take off my gear, i started to float back up which made it very difficult to completely take off the bcd and put back on since all my weight is on the BCD.
This part is both disconcerting, and not at all surprising. It is disconcerting because the instructor should have been alert to what was going on, and making suggestions regarding how to distribute the weight. But, it is not surprising, if ALL of your Confined Water training was completed in one day – and there were, presumably, other students in the course. If all of the weight (and there was apparently a ‘whompin gob' of it, as we say in the South) is in the scuba unit, and you take it off underwater, while wearing a thick (aka very positively buoyant) wetsuit, you will have some struggles – your body wants to float up, and away from the scuba unit which is firmly planted on the bottom, and perfectly happy to stay right where it is. Most divers find, over time, the best balance in distribution of their weight. In an Open Water class, the Instructor SHOULD assist the student in finding that proper balance.
DaK1:
Our class structure was set so that we did all the bookwork one day and all the confined water dives in another. We were very rushed and I do think the instructor could of done a lot better and be more detailed oriented instead of just getting it by and done.
I won’t pick on the instructor for the schedule, necessarily. Often, shops set up the schedule. I will assign responsibility to any instructor who willingly goes along with a schedule that they believe is not consistent with effective teaching and learning. I would not be comfortable teaching a private, 1 student Open Water course with one day of Confined Water training, much less a group class. Call me old-fashioned.
DaK1:
I had to do this twice because I coudn't get out of the harness and had to loosen it up first at the surface so that I can complete the test.
You apparently went into the course with the DSS BP/W already purchased. Who helped you adjust the fit of the unit? You describe a situation where the fit appears to be too snug. Why was it so snug? How did you set it up beforehand? Who helped you / advised you? I won’t hold an instructor accountable for the fit of a scuba unit that the student shows up with.
In three separate posts, Jim made comments that merit particular attention.
Jim Lapenta:
Standards call for students to be neutral in open water. That to me means properly weighted. The only way to do that is with proper checks.
You describe a course in which appropriate weight checks were not performed. We only have your assessment. But, if that is accurate, there was something seriously deficient in your Confined Water training.
Jim Lapenta:
Under any definition in a good class you will not feel rushed or that the instructor could have done a better job, covered more, or explained things better.
Not everyone learns at the same pace, or in the same style. This course may not have been a good fit for you. I, personally, would not be comfortable with a single day of Confined Water training, IF I wanted to actually learn the skills required in order to learn how to dive. And, finally:
Jim Lapenta:
This class sounds like an accident waiting to happen.
Perhaps, the third comment is the most telling. My impression arises from (only) your description, so I may be needlessly concerned. But, to have a student getting ready to go into the Open Water dives for a scuba course, with the issues you describe still unresolved, does not leave me with a warm, fuzzy feeling.
But, perhaps, there is, if not ‘light at the end of the tunnel’, a plausible explanation of why you got a course like you did:
DaK1:
I got it for a good discount
As Jim Carey said in Liar, Liar, ‘And, the truth shall set you free!’. In our area, we have a shop that runs discounted (Groupon and Living Social) Open Water Diver courses. They are generally a disaster. We have had ‘graduates’ of that course repeat the entire Open Water training with us, because they didn’t feel good about what they learned or, more accurately, what they didn’t learn. The agency is irrelevant. The duration, content, focus, and quality of the course is very relevant. Perhaps, you really do 'get what you pay for'.