My husband and I had an incident while diving at a local quarry earlier this week that shook both of us up. We were at Gilboa Quarry and the incident happened at the start of our second dive of the day. We were both getting used to new wetsuits, mine a 7 mm and his a 5 mm, so had been hassling around with weights quite a bit that day. I was in the water before he was, as he had walked back to the car to add or remove weights (I forget which). We had already done our buddy check and I did an easy entry into the water via the steps to wait for him. (Too hot to stay outside the water in the heavy wetsuit). With his weights set, he joined me in the water and after a few moments, we agreed to descend and vented air from our BCDs. We had been underwater for only a few breaths and were still descending when he gave me the Out of Air signal. I am embarrassed to admit I did not instantly respond. It took a second or two for his signal to compute (we hadnt talked about drills on this dive and my first reaction was to wonder WHY he chose that moment to do an Out of Air drill). In the seconds that I hesitated, he grabbed my octo, which is on a necklace around my neck. Now Im starting to get that this is for real. Im afraid much of my training disappeared from my head in the face of my fear (what the Hell is going on and is he okay???!!!). All I could think about was stopping our descent and getting both of us to the surface. I grabbed him with my left hand and held on for dear life. At that point he was NOT holding on to me. I think I added some air to my BCD, then tried to add air to his, which didnt work. So I then added more air to my BCD and managed to get enough lift to get us both to the surface even though he was still negatively buoyant. We were still close to the dock, so he grabbed the stairs and pulled himself into a seated position, while I leaned back in the water to catch my breath and let my heart rate return to normal.
Im unhappy with many of my reactions, but Ill start by mentioning one thing we did RIGHT. We are very serious about buddy positioning underwater and seldom are more than an arms length apart. This is true on descents and ascents as well as when we are touring around. So, thankfully, all he had to do to get my octo was reach for it. (Thank you, Jim Lapenta, for the emphasis on buddy awareness in our Advanced Open Water training --- that is ingrained in both of us). Im also happy our octos are on necklaces around our necks my husband was relieved to not have to look for my octo.
Im NOT happy that I wasnt able to stay calmer underwater after all once he had my octo, all was well. I did need to get us neutrally buoyant, but I think it was a mistake to be so focused on getting to the surface. Had I lost my grip on him when I was positively buoyant and he was still negative, Im not sure what would have happened. That could have led to the octo being pulled out of his mouth as he continued to descend, while I would have then been in a rapid ascent.
What I KNOW we should have done once he had my octo and I had added enough air to my BCD to stop our descent is to STOP and just look at each other, calm down, then act rationally. A few seconds pause with me encouraging him to just breathe, could have allowed him to realize he needed to hold on to me so it wasnt just my death grip on him keeping us together while we were air sharing. And he or I might have noticed he had put the octo in his mouth upside down (seriously) so it was breathing wet thank God that turned out okay. I also should have/could have checked his air (it was OFF) and turned it on. If turning on the air wasnt the solution, I could have manually added some air to his BCD while underwater. If, for some reason, I couldnt add air to his BCD underwater, I could have dropped some of his weights so at least he wasnt negatively buoyant. Any of those things would have allowed a calmer ascent to the surface to figure out what went wrong.
Please dont flame me on his air being turned off. I realize that is a serious error. We actually HAD done our buddy checks and I specifically remember checking his air. (He doesnt want me to touch his equipment, so I watch his pressure gauge to be sure it stays at 3000 psi while he breathes from his reg). Our error was that after our buddy check, he then took his equipment off to go mess with weights while I went ahead and got in the water due to being hot and uncomfortable in the heavy wetsuit. Apparently he turned off his air sometime in that process and didnt remember/realize he had done it. Or poltergeists or other divers nearby turned off his air. However it happened, our buddy check needed to be REPEATED at the waters edge or at the surface before we descended.
I think I would have been able to react in a much calmer way if my buddy was not a loved one. The fear that shot through me when I didnt know what was going on with him overrode my training and ability to be as calm as I would have liked. I think I would have done better if I was the one out of air instead of him. I know there have been threads on ScubaBoard before about the advantages and disadvantages of having a loved one as a dive buddy. Having strong emotion involved does complicate things.
Any thoughts?
Im unhappy with many of my reactions, but Ill start by mentioning one thing we did RIGHT. We are very serious about buddy positioning underwater and seldom are more than an arms length apart. This is true on descents and ascents as well as when we are touring around. So, thankfully, all he had to do to get my octo was reach for it. (Thank you, Jim Lapenta, for the emphasis on buddy awareness in our Advanced Open Water training --- that is ingrained in both of us). Im also happy our octos are on necklaces around our necks my husband was relieved to not have to look for my octo.
Im NOT happy that I wasnt able to stay calmer underwater after all once he had my octo, all was well. I did need to get us neutrally buoyant, but I think it was a mistake to be so focused on getting to the surface. Had I lost my grip on him when I was positively buoyant and he was still negative, Im not sure what would have happened. That could have led to the octo being pulled out of his mouth as he continued to descend, while I would have then been in a rapid ascent.
What I KNOW we should have done once he had my octo and I had added enough air to my BCD to stop our descent is to STOP and just look at each other, calm down, then act rationally. A few seconds pause with me encouraging him to just breathe, could have allowed him to realize he needed to hold on to me so it wasnt just my death grip on him keeping us together while we were air sharing. And he or I might have noticed he had put the octo in his mouth upside down (seriously) so it was breathing wet thank God that turned out okay. I also should have/could have checked his air (it was OFF) and turned it on. If turning on the air wasnt the solution, I could have manually added some air to his BCD while underwater. If, for some reason, I couldnt add air to his BCD underwater, I could have dropped some of his weights so at least he wasnt negatively buoyant. Any of those things would have allowed a calmer ascent to the surface to figure out what went wrong.
Please dont flame me on his air being turned off. I realize that is a serious error. We actually HAD done our buddy checks and I specifically remember checking his air. (He doesnt want me to touch his equipment, so I watch his pressure gauge to be sure it stays at 3000 psi while he breathes from his reg). Our error was that after our buddy check, he then took his equipment off to go mess with weights while I went ahead and got in the water due to being hot and uncomfortable in the heavy wetsuit. Apparently he turned off his air sometime in that process and didnt remember/realize he had done it. Or poltergeists or other divers nearby turned off his air. However it happened, our buddy check needed to be REPEATED at the waters edge or at the surface before we descended.
I think I would have been able to react in a much calmer way if my buddy was not a loved one. The fear that shot through me when I didnt know what was going on with him overrode my training and ability to be as calm as I would have liked. I think I would have done better if I was the one out of air instead of him. I know there have been threads on ScubaBoard before about the advantages and disadvantages of having a loved one as a dive buddy. Having strong emotion involved does complicate things.
Any thoughts?