A long hose is simply not required for a comfortable, side by side air share between 2 experienced divers that have done this numerous times. To say otherwise, like I mentioned before, would be disingenuous.
Are you routing your octo from the left of the 1st stage? I have done a fair few horizontal air shares (albeit with students) and I have found that the traditional routing of the octo on the right shoulder is horrible for side-by-side swimming.
It's not a need to share, it's a want to share. I would not want to miss the whales!
The dive plan, gas consumption calculations include a few minutes of air sharing so the IS NO need to change the plan.
As an experienced diver, it is quite possible that you know both your own and your partners average DAC at different depths. Again as this is the beginners forum, this is unrealistic for beginner divers, and if only for that one reason alone, it should be avoided IMO.
Andy, SeaCobra, SuperG, et al: a (semi)serious question. Do any of you have a problem with people practicing air sharing during a dive? Not doing an ascent, but just practicing the act of sharing air? I'm not asking about the purpose or intent -- merely the act itself. As an instructor, I do advise ALL of my students to practice the ACT of sharing air during a dive and remind them that "you use it or lose it" applies.
For that to be a true practice of sharing air- your buddy would also need to breathe off you octo for a certain duration. PADI states 1 min to assume an ascent from above 18m. Given that this ascent rate is thought by many to be excessively fast, 2mins would be better. Better still it would then move in to ascent and oral inflation at the surface to reinforce all the steps of the procedure. For that reason I advocate air-sharing after completing a safety stop, or from shallow single dives where safety stops (while desired) are deemed to be not necessary.