nolatom
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"I think I need a less challenging buddy, you're too quick for me".
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If your dive status is really 0-24, you are an instant fish in my book. That said, what you have said above belies you as a very mature diver. Either way, good job taking control of the dive for both your safety and his. However, I would have probably slugged him once out of the water, that's just me though. Total BS to have to dive with someone like that.
Probably the key question is not "how long have you been diving", but "when and where was the last time you dove...."
Here is my suggestion. " You really had some problems on that dive. Are you ok? Maybe, if we dive together again, we can establish some rules. How about I lead the dive, and you stay to my left and slightly ( like a foot) above me. That way you can work on buoyancy, enjoy the dive, and I'll navigate." If they are agreeable, then from that point on you are the dive leader and they follow you. If they hesitate, or are contrary, then just say. "I think you'll enjoy the next dive more if you dive with someone else. Then you approach another buddy team and ask if you can join them. I have a blog on dealing with instabuddies you might want to check out.
DivemasterDennis
Here is my suggestion. " You really had some problems on that dive. Are you ok? Maybe, if we dive together again, we can establish some rules. How about I lead the dive, and you stay to my left and slightly ( like a foot) above me. That way you can work on buoyancy, enjoy the dive, and I'll navigate." If they are agreeable, then from that point on you are the dive leader and they follow you. If they hesitate, or are contrary, then just say. "I think you'll enjoy the next dive more if you dive with someone else. Then you approach another buddy team and ask if you can join them. I have a blog on dealing with instabuddies you might want to check out.
DivemasterDennis
had a panic attack because they were down to 500 psi and was going to blow the safety stop (which I insisted we do), even though they had a pony bottle and I had 1600 psi in my tank.
I don't have enough information to fully judge this situation but my instinct tells me that if someone really is having a panic attack that they need to be at the surface and positively buoyant. Rule #1 is anyone can thumb a dive for any reason with no repercussions. While safety stops are a good thing, they are also very optional. It's clear that the diver had enough gas available to do the stop but if he can't StopP, Breath, Think, Act then it doesn't do any good.
I think that this was a good learning experience for you. These things do happen and you should now have a better idea of the kind of skills and experience you need to work on building in case you get another buddy like this.
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Funny thing is I usually dive with instabuddies and they have almost always been very good. Luck?? Karma?? I dunno.