You really should "try" the free dive fins....tell the guy at the dive shop you really are interested, but you believe he should have the responsibility and foresight of a Ski shop offering demo skis.....this IS the way skiers find the right ski for themselves, and it is ABSOLUTELY the best way for a diver to find the best fins.... The only caveat for you, is that with split fins there is no need to understand any ideal kick mechanics to get yourself moving in the water....if you thrash your legs around, they will move you forward...maybe not with much power or very fast, but they will move you....
With free dive fins, they require a well coordinated series of muscle contractions--the right ones, and if you do this, the speed and power they put out is exponentially more than what splits are capable of. Do it WRONG and the free dive fins will be unwieldy, and you may not even get to kicking them.... The big "BUT" is that in a perfect world, you would have a buddy that is good with free dive fins, make sure you know the right kick stroke/shape to use, so that you actually get to feel the real propulsion and control possible with the free dive fins.
Here is a thought.....take ANY DIVER IN FLORIDA....put them in splits like apollo bio fins....I will wear my free dive fins....we will do the
equivalent of a face off at a football line, I try to drive him backward, he tries to drive me backward....This really
won't come down to strength....what it will come down to is that the
thrust potential of free dive fins, will be so exponentially higher than the splits, that I will drive him back quickly, and there will be nothing he can do about it ( other than switching to free dive fins...or Force Fins
Easy to show this
*** On a related note, imagine a scenario where a scuba diver with free dive fins, is headed directly toward a split fin wearer --they pass, and get hooked on the trailing float line one has.....each keeps swimming forward, until the line pays out....NOW it is a "tug of war"---and the free dive fin wearing diver keeps right on going, while the split fin divers is getting pulled backwards, still kicking, and he is going faster backwards than he was going forward before....this is an image worth considering...
The other benefit of free dive fins is that when you want to swim slowly, you make almost imperceptible fin motions, and move as fast as the split fin wearing diver that is kicking at their cruising pace/comfortable effort for diving. You with the free dive fins, are relatively almost asleep underwater, effort-wise....this equates to much more bottom time--you can use a al 80, while your evil twin with the splits would need an HP100 for the same bottom time...or maybe even a LP 120