FPDocMatt
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... and convince knowledgeable people to contribute content there while you police everyone through your filter of perceived "rudeness" ...
And that would be bad because...?
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... and convince knowledgeable people to contribute content there while you police everyone through your filter of perceived "rudeness" ...
People who are rude are quick to tell people whose feelings they hurt that they're too sensitive.
If the majority of members of SB feel that the harshness of some of the posts here is not severe enough to warrant taking offense, then perhaps those of us who do should just start a separate, kinder and gentler scuba forum.
... if the majority of the people on this forum accept a certain level of what I would call rudeness, then that's what the majority wants. We shouldn't try and change it. If those of us who are thinner-skinned want a kindler and gentler forum, we'll just have to set it up and run it ourselves.
And that would be bad because...?
You have to remember when you post you are basically standing up in front of thousands of people and saying something. They then get to reply to you one by one. In a group that size, most people are going to be great... but some are not.
Communication is a co-operative act (per Grice's maxims). When looking at a conversation, it is interesting to analyse the moments when co-operative behaviors cease, when people stop attempting to share information or achieve a mutual understanding. Those are markers that other personal agendas have entered.
It never crossed my mind to expect SB to change because *I* thought people should behave differently!