7mm wetsuits suck! I dived mine last weekend, for the first time in a long time. I dived my drysuit the next day. Managing buoyancy in a (trilam or other shell type) drysuit is easier (to me) than managing it in a 7mm wetsuit.
But, a 5mm or less wetsuit is totally fine (to me!). My 5mm is my "go to" suit nowadays. I only wear anything else if it's TOO warm for the 5mm, too cold for the 5mm and a hood and gloves, or if I need a drysuit for redundant buoyancy.
So, to the OP, don't give up on wetsuits completely just because 7mm suits suck!
Remember this:
Your biggest buoyancy change from the surface will be from the thickest wetsuit. With a drysuit, you add some air to the suit at depth, so your buoyancy doesn't (have to) change at all from the surface to the bottom.
With a thick wetsuit, you'll lose a lot of buoyancy at depth, which means adding that much more air to your BCD. And the more air you have in your BCD, the harder it is to control your buoyancy. Thus why (to me, anyway) controlling buoyancy in a 7mm is harder than a drysuit or any thinner wetsuit. AND, if you add "a little extra" lead, that means even more air in your BCD at depth, which means even HARDER to control your buoyancy.