I said long ago that I would consider a pony if I were going to dive solo or something along those lines. However, the lack of standardization doesn't sit well with me, and I suppose that was the gist of my comment you were replying to. Who am I-- a relatively new diver--to experiment around to try to find out what is "best" when so many thousands of divers before me have already been working on this problem for decades? I'm not sure there is enough information out there to tell me all I need to know about incorporating a pony into my diving in a way that really does improve my safety. Maybe there is--"it's not rocket science." Maybe there isn't--"I don't know what I don't know." As someone pointed out, there isn't a lot of formal training available, and different people--even instructors--seem to have somewhat different ideas about ponies. I'm not sure what the training that is available is based on, but I get the impression it isn't based on the accumulated decades of experience of a group of highly skilled divers. Not to go around in circles here, but if anything, I get the impression that a whole lot of the really experienced, really skilled divers are not using ponies.
I cut the above from your post because I wanted the context, but the section in bold I don't really agree with.
One of the reasons I see fewer ponies now than I used to, is because more divers are on twinsets.
A second point is the condition under which you dive. In the UK, the water is generally cold, especially in the winter, and especially in freshwater.
Some one constant risk (despite improvements in regulators), is free flow.
A lot of UK instructors, teaching basic scuba, will use 'similar kit' i.e not a twinset. This group in particular tend to use ponies. Why?, because the water is cold, the risk of free flow high, and the buddy may well not be qualified. They are 100% redundent in the event of a regulator failure.
Those in the UK that are experienced, but don't dive twinsets are the most likely to still carry a pony for the vast majority of their diving.
In my mind, where risk factors are higher, but twinsets are not frequently seen, then you are more likely to see a pony. i.e cold(er) water, where the underwater visability is variable (poor). Where the divers are deep(ish), (sub 20m), where they may include incur minimal decompression, or where they may be entering or diving wrecks (no clear surface or risk of no clear surface).
All of the above factors tick boxes for the UK