drrich2
Contributor
"The other issue happened on the last day. New DM for this day. I dove with an entirely new group. While the people were very nice and fun to dive with, it just wasn't the same. I won't mention the DM's name but I just didn't like his style. The other divers had been diving with him all week and seemed to really like him. He really catered to their needs and not mine. He didn't really care where I wanted to go and spent a lot of the dive time helping a diver catch lion fish and feed them to eels and fish. The other divers seem to really enjoy this, but it just didn't seem fun to me. He was a good DM, but didn't take care of me like the others. I had to break down my own gear and put it in the bag which I didn't have to do all week."
You were there. I wasn't. Some subjective inferences from your post, for what they're worth, if anything.
1.) The DM & group and been working together for days, probably had a smooth workflow established & the group likely meshed with each other. You were the newcomer. Plus you'd just had had an excellent experience with somebody else, so unconsciously your standards may have been high.
2.) 'Style' is subjective. What one person really likes will be off-putting to another.
3.) The other divers seemed to really like him, so he probably did a good job with them, impressed them. So he was at least doing a lot right.
4.) If he 'really catered to their needs and not yours,' be mindful he's one guy, dealing with all of you often simultaneously, and if people have very different agendas (e.g.: lion fish hunting vs. looking for big stuff vs. inspecting coral heads for macro. subjects), sometimes you've gotta pick one at a time.
5.) Feeding lionfish to eels & other predators would be quite interesting and entertaining to many divers. You can't please all of the people all of the time.
Somebody else indicated at the end of diving with Aldora you break down your own stuff, right?
Richard.
You were there. I wasn't. Some subjective inferences from your post, for what they're worth, if anything.
1.) The DM & group and been working together for days, probably had a smooth workflow established & the group likely meshed with each other. You were the newcomer. Plus you'd just had had an excellent experience with somebody else, so unconsciously your standards may have been high.
2.) 'Style' is subjective. What one person really likes will be off-putting to another.
3.) The other divers seemed to really like him, so he probably did a good job with them, impressed them. So he was at least doing a lot right.
4.) If he 'really catered to their needs and not yours,' be mindful he's one guy, dealing with all of you often simultaneously, and if people have very different agendas (e.g.: lion fish hunting vs. looking for big stuff vs. inspecting coral heads for macro. subjects), sometimes you've gotta pick one at a time.
5.) Feeding lionfish to eels & other predators would be quite interesting and entertaining to many divers. You can't please all of the people all of the time.
Somebody else indicated at the end of diving with Aldora you break down your own stuff, right?
Richard.