Like it or not, the country the two of you live and dive in is litigation-happy. You really can't blame operators for protecting their interests and mitigating risks... they might have to turn away a customer or two, but the money they lose is peanuts when compared to the costs defending themselves from a lawsuit brought by grieving relatives and the ensuing bad press that damages their earnings potential even more. Remember that even if the diver expressly accepts all risks--including going to depths beyond those commonly associated with OW dive qualifications--families almost never believe that their loved one might have provoked an incident himself, and they will almost always look for somebody else to bear the responsibility, and to sue for liability. If the family can't say "the op was negligent for letting him do this dive," the risks of finding themselves at the defense table are that much smaller.
Just make the best of the AOW, find a way to enjoy it (such as quahog fishing), and help your dive ops keep the lawyers at bay.