DO NOT SHARE A COMPUTER. EVER!!!
You have no idea how much you are endangering yourself. You need to dive the tables, period.
In terms of air consumption, it all has to do with burning calories. If you're bigger than she is, you're going to hoover down more air. If you're swimming more, ditto. If you're colder, ditto.
But please, PLEASE, do not try and share a computer. That is one of the biggest no-no's around, due to a lot of factors. You should both be diving the tables. You have to dive the most restrictive of the team (the tables are more restrictive).