Backwards, forwards, I like to jump.
have done oil slick giant stride just for the fun of the splash....
I hit the water with my feet firmly together just to see how big a splash I can make... :cool2:
I generally go in deflated and don't surface after hitting the water. Why go up only to turn around and go back down - silly. I'll buddy up 5ft under and head down.
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To the OP, I think it helps to realize that you're getting in the water when you leap, not after 5 minutes of bobbing on the surface. If you think that way, you won't go up to the jump-off until you're ready to dive. Don't jump in thinking I'll get mentally ready once in the water. When you do the giant stride, don't be timid, do it with confidence, no matter what you may be saying to yourself internally. A half-hearted entry is where people can get hurt by not leaping clear and hitting the boat, ladder, dock, another diver, etc. The worst is changing your mind at the last minute and falling. Think tough, and don't stand up to go until you're ready. Once you do stand up to go, you've crossed the point of no return and you don't second guess yourself. Don't stand up until you're mentally prepared to dive, and once you stand up, don't look back.
Several years ago, we went to Typhoon Lagoon and stood in line for almost an hour to ride the biggest slide in the park. After all that wait, I was about 5th in line and said to myself, "Wow... we're really up here! What I'm I doing here, I don't even want to ride this thing." Then, before I knew it, and while I was still contemplating if I wanted to do it, there was only one guy ahead of me. I quickly realized I was past the point of no return and had committed myself about 30 minutes earlier. So I stepped forward like I owned it, and did it, just like everyone before me. Afterwards, we realized wasn't a big deal and decided the line was too long and the ride too short to do it again. But, lesson learned, what I learned diving apparently has real world applications.