I would not tip the instructor unless the circumstances were unusual, like he/she put in significant extra time coaching you or the class size was so small that it the experience was much more personalized than a typical group lesson. A shop that directs students to tip the instructor (even through a suggestion, not directive) is IMO on pretty shaky ground ethically. It's basically saying "even though you are paying us for a class, we are not compensating our instructors enough and you should subsidize that." This might be okay for someone in a service position, but not an educator.
For the nitrox question, I don't think it's necessary or even a good idea to bother taking it along with OW certification, and I would be a bit suspect of the motives for encouraging OW certification students to take it. It's highly unlikely that you would benefit from it during the class or even immediately afterwards unless you are diving in an unusual situation for new divers, like several dives/day to fairly significant depths.
It would be much better to simply take your certification class and get some shallow, easy dives in to develop your newly acquired skills. Then, when you are in a situation where nitrox use is actually beneficial, you can get the certification online or even at a dive resort where you might need the nitrox.
Someone mentioned that he considered nitrox to be "a safety issue." There is absolutely no evidence at all that nitrox use increases safety. It does lower the N2 load in comparison to air if used on an identical dive profile, but there are several other factors which would impact safety.