I have often said when talking about charter boats that I will follow their rules and if I don't like them I will just have to dive with someone else...
Yesterday I had something happen that made me rethink this. My wife and I were being picked up after a drift dive (no tag line) she was making her way up the ladder and I was floating near the back of the boat..not too close and not drifting off. The boat was in a bit of chop and the back of the boat was moving up and down by at least two feet...enough that my wife had a little trouble getting her fins on the ladder (christmas tree style). The deck hand says to me, grab the back of the boat, and I tell him that I'm ok where I'm at, it's not a problem. At that point I thought it was a suggestion...he then says to me "no you have to". I thought about it for at least 5 or 10 seconds and then politely told him "no I'm sorry, I won't grab the boat and hit my head or something". I boarded by myself while he was taking her to her seat, and nothing was said to me about it.
In those 5 or 10 seconds I really felt like I should just do what he said since he was crew, but having been in water where other divers were mildly injured because of boats moving up and down I ultimately said no.
Has anyone else been told to do something by a member of a charter's crew that you thought was unsafe? Did you do it or refuse? If you refused, what was the reaction/consequences?
Yesterday I had something happen that made me rethink this. My wife and I were being picked up after a drift dive (no tag line) she was making her way up the ladder and I was floating near the back of the boat..not too close and not drifting off. The boat was in a bit of chop and the back of the boat was moving up and down by at least two feet...enough that my wife had a little trouble getting her fins on the ladder (christmas tree style). The deck hand says to me, grab the back of the boat, and I tell him that I'm ok where I'm at, it's not a problem. At that point I thought it was a suggestion...he then says to me "no you have to". I thought about it for at least 5 or 10 seconds and then politely told him "no I'm sorry, I won't grab the boat and hit my head or something". I boarded by myself while he was taking her to her seat, and nothing was said to me about it.
In those 5 or 10 seconds I really felt like I should just do what he said since he was crew, but having been in water where other divers were mildly injured because of boats moving up and down I ultimately said no.
Has anyone else been told to do something by a member of a charter's crew that you thought was unsafe? Did you do it or refuse? If you refused, what was the reaction/consequences?