I would go with the 40 lbs wing for a number of reasons.
First, your weight required to dive should be calculated WITHOUT camera gear. That way if you drop your camera you are not on a rocket asscent to the surface, therefore you would need to float this weight using the bladder in the BC.
Second, most dry suit divers will use at least some weight that is NOT rapidly ditchable. This would include things like ankle weights or trim weight. Given that this weight is collectively for air in the dry suit, if you were to rip a seal or have to dump air from your suit in an emergency by breaking the seal you would need enough to lift this weight. Personally I use roughly 15 lbs ditchable weight integrated into my bc and the rest in trim weights that are not ditchable.
Next if you plan on traveling, you might consider what type of traveling. Here in Canada if you plan on doing ice diving (personally a great time of year to take pictures) you might be carrying backup tank and reg, ropes etc... which again should not count in your weight calculation as you may have to ditch, use it or give it to a dive buddy. Also diving doubles will also result in increased bouyancy at the end of the dive that needs weight to counteract it.
Each thing might only be a couple lbs here and there but, keep in mind that you need to be heavy enough at the end of the dive to allow you to do a safety stop.
All in all I find that a 40 lbs wing would be the min floatation that I would dive with. I do not agree with using the BC wing elevator style, but rather just wanted to point out that they should have the necessary bouyancy to counteract any gear that they might be carrying.
Just my personal opinion though. It always got me back to the surface
Again for a new diver you might want to just try renting a bunch of BC setups to find one that you like first. Most dive shops have a good collection, and what matters most is how well it works for you. For instance I will look for things like places to store a SMB, where the trim weights are, and most importantly how does it fit. I would rather travel with something that is a little heavier but that is comfortable as we should be diving as much as humanly possible