gregorio:
About trust me dive, lost of them seem to say it is bad in any case, but when you take a plane or a taxi, isn't it a "trust me ride"? Is it bad if i trust the DM to lead me where my experience allow me to go and to keep an eye on me ? (just a question, please don't fire me :bigun2
Whether it's bad or not is up to you. I think the important thing is to understand the situation and make an informed decision.
I don't think that's always the case either though. For example the former stududent that I mationed above who was taken through a wreck at 90 ft. By the way the dive was done, I doubt the DM was qualified for the dive. If he was, he certainly acted in a way contrary to his own training because they broke just about every accepted rule for diving in an overhead environment that there is. Yet, all those on the dive apparently trusted him anyway.
To use your example of a plane ride, you know your pilot, copilot, navigator ext are at least trained for what they are doing...or at least you can find out.
If you dive with an instructor in a class, the class must conform to training standards which you can research.
What is a DM at a resort? Are all guids on all resort or charter boats trained to the level they are guiding? Who says so? Are they working within or accountable to any standards? I can tell you right know that the agencies who's standards that I am familiar with do not have standards for guided dives that DM's are required to comply with.
You can trust any one all you want but if something goes wrong and the country you are diving in even has a court system where you can take action, they are going to argue that you as a trained and certified diver were the responsible party.
If you want to trust some one else to see to something that you are responsible for, go ahead.