I am so done with any LDS.. Online 100%..
People can try their worthless scare tactics all day but what it boils down to for me, I can actually buy 2 times the gear for the price. When you are talking margins like that (keep in mind, I did get a "Deal" or so they said) then there is no reason to not go online.
Welllll... Apparently, you haven't had a good experience with your local LDS(s).
While I've had a *great* experience with a few online retailers (ScubaToys comes to mind), my local LDS does afford me discounts, advice, free fills, throws me specials now and then because I *do* have a relationship with them. So, I wouldn't discount their value. I've yet to have them try any 'scare tactics' with me, or seen them try it with anyone else...
Dont even get me started on "LDS dive trips".. Ugh.. Have people not heard of Orbitz? Travelocity? Geesh.. Book your trip, call up an operator, book the dive and done. Simple. No issues. I also hate paying for my trip so that some one who could pick a date and advertise could go for free..
I've booked and gone on my own trips in the past, as well.
However, if the LDS is booking at a site I'm interested in, if they're getting group rates, and if I know I'll be diving with people I already know and enjoy diving with, I don't understand your issue with the LDS enjoying a free slot or two for taking care of all the arrangements, as well as securing a good group rate.
Anyway... bottom line, use your discretion. Nothing at all wrong with many click and mortar operations. I've used them, will continue to, but will also use my local LDS, and maintain my relationships there.