To get back on topic... I think if He was as cheap as O² then more people would use it shallower, the additional benefits outweigh the risks (ascend).
I believe when people decide on Tx/HeO² vs air there are a lot of factors in play no?
- Logistics, availability and price of He... diving Chuuk lagoon will probably be with a leaner or no mix at all because of the costs involved.
- Training & Experience: Identifying risks is of course based on your training and experience.
- local diving circumstances: visibility, cold, dark, current
- And then the biggie, your personal risk vs reward balance...
Pulling the safety card during such discussions doesn't convince anybody, because the other party simply will not recognise the risk or will think you over-estimate the risk. I know divers who went to 100m(300ft) on air and have a picture of their divecomputer at that depth on their fridge door. I've dived with a guy (and it was my last dive with him, because I was so pissed off) on a tropical reef who without any planning or notice dropped like a brick to 56m(185ft) on nitrox 28... I went after him, because I thought he was incapacitated, he was not.. he was just stupid.
I personally try to balance the above and make a (hopefully) informed decision. For example I'll easily dive 25/25 or 30/30 on a very shallow 25-30m(80-100ft) north sea wreck dive if we are doing a ghostfishing wreck cleaning dive. Bad visibility, current, "working" underwater, work of breathing... all amount to a possibility of CO² retention and maybe a darknarc... so I like to avoid that and have a easy breathing mix. It helps of course that for these dives the ghostfishing organisation will pay half the gas bill. On the other hand I'll dive to my personal air limit of 40m(120ft) if the conditions are benign (warm tropical water without current). If it's warm tropical water with a lot of current I would err on the shallow side of this limit. Finally overhead will always be mix in my book.
If someone doesn't agree to these limits I'll politely agree to disagree and just won't dive with them. If they agree and then during the dive just exceed what was planned it's my last dive with them.
Of course within my local GUE community this never poses a problem, but with the cmas crowd it does from time to time.. I've long ago learned that it's very hard to impossible to convince someone why your personal narcosis (END) limits are what they are, so I just inform people and if they don't subscribe to it, I won't discuss... I just won't dive with them... and let them on their merry way. The sea is big enough for all of us.
I've only met Lynn once and had some email conversations with her on diving on the Tala, that's all. So I don't assume to know her but reading her many posts on this and other diving topics I sense that her risk vs reward balance was very much on the side of caution. I don't think that being cautious has anything to do with your diving skills, You are not a good or a bad diver because you are a risktaker or cautious. However when it comes to technical diving... I'll always pick the cautious buddy ;-)
I feel very sorry about what happened to Lynn, nobody knows what caught up to her, a cascade of small issues or 1 big one, would a light mix with a lower ppo² have helped? Nobody knows, that's just speculation, but I guess when she made the decision to dive the mix she dived on that last dive, it was an informed decision based on the information at hand.