After thinking about this, with the recent threads involved, I'd offer my own definition of a "trust me" dive -- it's a dive you couldn't END (note: not COMPLETE, but END) using your own resources. If you don't know enough to maintain gas reserves to get to the surface, and can't competently execute a long blue water ascent, you shouldn't follow someone deep. If you can't deal with a freeflow in a tunnel, establish an air-share and exit, you shouldn't follow someone into a long lava tube.
But, for example, when I was a brand-new diver, managing my own buoyancy and gas required so much bandwidth that using a compass in low viz and trying to navigate accurately around a local dive site was really pretty much beyond me. I dove with NW Grateful Diver a lot, and used HIM as a navigation resource. But had I gotten separated from him and unsure of where I was, I could swim upslope and eventually reach SOMEWHERE I could exit, or I could have just ascended and done a surface swim in from anywhere in the site. I could END the dive safely.
If you are lacking in the skills, knowledge OR composure to end a dive without your companion, in whatever conditions the particular dive site could be reasonably predicted to throw at you, you are doing a trust me dive.
But, for example, when I was a brand-new diver, managing my own buoyancy and gas required so much bandwidth that using a compass in low viz and trying to navigate accurately around a local dive site was really pretty much beyond me. I dove with NW Grateful Diver a lot, and used HIM as a navigation resource. But had I gotten separated from him and unsure of where I was, I could swim upslope and eventually reach SOMEWHERE I could exit, or I could have just ascended and done a surface swim in from anywhere in the site. I could END the dive safely.
If you are lacking in the skills, knowledge OR composure to end a dive without your companion, in whatever conditions the particular dive site could be reasonably predicted to throw at you, you are doing a trust me dive.