I would say, as a general principle, memorize/learn exactly whatever the PADI book and your instructor tell you, regardless of what other sources may say. Now, if there is an inconsistency between the book and the DVD, you should of course point it out to the instructor. The replies here have been more than thorough, but the bottom line is that you're taking a PADI course, so for the time being you should memorize (that is, learn) the information exactly as it is taught by PADI.
Once you pass the course, then by all means start questioning what you learned in the course. As you will soon discover from reading SB, PADI is not the ultimate authority on diving, and expert opinions differ on just about every aspect of diving. Approach your PADI Open Water dive course like any other course you might have taken: Follow just what you are taught, as that will become the foundation for you to learn more on your own later. Then, as you learn more from other sources, you will begin to be able to form your own opinions and perhaps choose to modify aspects of the foundation that you learned. Trying to assimilate information from different sources WHILE taking the PADI course is not something I would recommend, as it will just confuse you.
I can't tell you how many people must come to SB not long after being certified and think/post with some degree of frustration, "But in MY Open Water course I was taught to do it a different way!" Yes, there are all kinds of opinions and schools of thought on almost every issue in diving, just as there are in other disciplines. PADI's intent is to teach you one way of doing things. Learn it. Practice it. And then later, when you've got the foundation down pat, feel free to try broadening your horizons.
Again, my reply is intended to be broader than your specific question. I think the specific question regarding 30 fpm versus 60 fpm versus some other ascent rate has been thoroughly answered.