No need to get snippy I didnt ask to dive with you. I've had this discussion with 3 separate cave instructors. The general concensus is a 5 foot hose is a "selfish" length. Early on my wife dove a 5 footer in ow and when we moved to cave she considered it. Our initial instructor was the one that called it a selfish length and made us try some air share scenarios with both 5 and 7 foot. The issue is once you throw in some minor restrictions or a dpv the air sharing becomes less comfortable for the person receiving a 5 foot hose. More fins in the face when touch contact air sharing and depending on how you choose to share air on a scooter it can make keeping the reg in your mouth uncomfortable. I've discussed t with other cave instructors just for fun since I was already convinced and they agreed. I'm sure theres others that agree with a 5 footer being ok.
At the end of the day if you're only diving with other sm divers in the overhead who cares. Once you throw in a backmount diver the odds of an air share go up, though a rare occurrence. So sure its probably not likely to ever be an issue, but I'd rather be prepared if it does.
Your buddies may not care because they've never air shared on a dpv or via touch contact on a 5 ft hose or they may be very experienced and not worried. Personally my configuration keeps my buddy's safety and comfort in mind as much as my own. I think a great test would be for you to exit cow air sharing on a 5 footer with a buddy. Then do it on a 7 footer and tell me how you feel.