Great advice, and so highly original. Thanks.
Anytime.
My opinion on if a computer is safer?
Safer than what? Any diver can get bent, once you dive deep enough to exceed the 2:1 (or as some say the 1.6:1 pressure gradient). Dive computers or dive tables don't take into account your physical condition prior to diving. Are you hydrated, well rested, in good shape, hungry, high blood sugar, low blood sugar, high blood pressure, etc.
Computers maximize bottom times by giving you a more realistic picture of depth and time, as to approximate your no decompression and/or decompression obligations at any given moment on the dive. This by no means makes it safer.
Tables include a lot of rounding off, and generally give you less bottom time, since they assume a square profile, and theoretically you should plan for your deepest depth, and round up your time to the next time unit on the dive, thus you're actually diving a shorter time than the table is accounting for, and at a shallower depth than the table is accounting for, and logic would follow that this is a more conservative approach, and logic would also follow that conservatism is safer.
At the same time; if the boat wants a computer, then the rules is the rules. It's their boat after all. Right or wrong... It is what it is.