I wasn't around for the start of this discussion, but would like to add two things.
(1) Keilidh, don't feel bad about not wanting to believe that you were "hit". Denial is a very natural response as a part of the psychological process. It is something that all of us must struggle against. I am very glad that you have gotten good advise, and accepted it. I'm very glad that you are on the road to recovery!
(2) A hearty "well-done" to all who contributed! Your advise was pretty much "spot on"!
(1) Keilidh, don't feel bad about not wanting to believe that you were "hit". Denial is a very natural response as a part of the psychological process. It is something that all of us must struggle against. I am very glad that you have gotten good advise, and accepted it. I'm very glad that you are on the road to recovery!
(2) A hearty "well-done" to all who contributed! Your advise was pretty much "spot on"!