AUTiger
Contributor
This in an interesting thread. Here are my thoughts.
I almost always buddy dive, but I'm usually not happy with it. I generally want a buddy along to enhance my enjoyment of the dive. I like a buddy who points out things to me (which I can photograph, or we both photograph) and who appreciates it when I share my finds with him. I don't really keep a buddy along for safety, at least for "safe" dives in known environments under good conditions. I dive every dive with the plan that I can take care of myself. I'll also take care of my buddy too, if the need comes up, but I'm not their shadow and I'm not their guardian angel. My least favorite buddies are those that just hover above and behind me and passively follow.
I often wish I was solo so that I could watch a creature or location a little longer without feeling like I am depriving my buddy of his own enjoyment. I have been known to go out as a threesome and then wave the other two on while I stay with a subject. I also have good air consumption, so I often escort my buddy back to the boat and then wave him up while I spend another 10-15 minutes in the general area.
Now things are different if I am penetration diving or night diving. There is a higher level of risk and therefore a greater need for that buddy teamwork. Lobster diving is also a concern because people can get carried away and get sloppy with their air management, although the very nature of hunting tends to separate us a little further.
These are just my opinions, of course. My buddies know what I do before we hit the water. The first thing I teach them is the "bye bye wave" sign. If they don't like that plan, that's fine. They can buddy with somebody else and I'll go solo or I'll be a little more attentive and note our differences for the next time that we go out.
David
I almost always buddy dive, but I'm usually not happy with it. I generally want a buddy along to enhance my enjoyment of the dive. I like a buddy who points out things to me (which I can photograph, or we both photograph) and who appreciates it when I share my finds with him. I don't really keep a buddy along for safety, at least for "safe" dives in known environments under good conditions. I dive every dive with the plan that I can take care of myself. I'll also take care of my buddy too, if the need comes up, but I'm not their shadow and I'm not their guardian angel. My least favorite buddies are those that just hover above and behind me and passively follow.
I often wish I was solo so that I could watch a creature or location a little longer without feeling like I am depriving my buddy of his own enjoyment. I have been known to go out as a threesome and then wave the other two on while I stay with a subject. I also have good air consumption, so I often escort my buddy back to the boat and then wave him up while I spend another 10-15 minutes in the general area.
Now things are different if I am penetration diving or night diving. There is a higher level of risk and therefore a greater need for that buddy teamwork. Lobster diving is also a concern because people can get carried away and get sloppy with their air management, although the very nature of hunting tends to separate us a little further.
These are just my opinions, of course. My buddies know what I do before we hit the water. The first thing I teach them is the "bye bye wave" sign. If they don't like that plan, that's fine. They can buddy with somebody else and I'll go solo or I'll be a little more attentive and note our differences for the next time that we go out.
David