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squidgy:Ok here is the deal, my husband and his buddies go on a mens only dive trip once a year. That's okay cuz I like the time to myself and I know that sometimes men like to be ...well you know...men, but this time they are planning to go somewhere that I really want to go. We can't afford to go later with the wives too. I know if I pushed hard, they would say okay, but I don't know if this is the best way to handle it. There are 5 diver wives and the rest are non-divers, so there may be the problem of, if you let one go, then the rest goes too. What to do, what to do...
Did I mention that the dive next year might be Galapagos? And yes, hubby does take me diving other places, like Cozumel and Bonaire but still.. Galapagos. So what should I do?
Squidgy
squidgy:Ok here is the deal, my husband and his buddies go on a mens only dive trip once a year.
The first rule is to ask for more than you want. Gives you a little slack to compromise with.Diver0001:Remember, the first rule of negotiation is to ask for what you want, not for what you think the other party wants to give you.
From the English to American Dictionarysmokey braden:what is "chuffed" ?
jepuskar:DrBill, as much as you love the ladies, you need to pay attention to what they have to say from time to time. She mentioned in her post that they can't afford for her to go later on.