Herk_Man
Contributor
FRIEND...NOT WIFE!! Anyway...I totally agree with equalizing early and often. I told her I can't go much more - if any - past 5 feet without uncomfortable pressure. What happened with the blown eardrum? Difficult to recover from or just a neusance to get through?
As for her check-out dives...I'll have to find out. That is a good question.
Luckily the eardrum rupture was very slight. She did not even know it happened but she had blood coming out of it when she surfaced. She saw the doctor the next day and he put her on some antibiotics and some steroid ear drops. There was some discomfort in the ear for about a month and her hearing was kind of goofed up during that time as well. But all is good and luckily she had enough time to heal prior to the trip that it did not effect her ability to dive. Zero ear problems in Bonaire and she loved it. She still does not like to ascend and descend vertically because of the incident so we generally descended in about 10 feet of water and followed the sand to the reef. Took a bit of air but there are actually some cool things to see in the sand if you look for them.
In fact, that is really what I recommend doing with your FRIEND (sorry ) until she learns that things really are ok below 20'. This will ensure a gradual descent and give her ample time to clear the ears while swimming out to the edge of the reef.
Good luck!