I think my point was that, in recreational diving, we are taught never to secure an octo in a way that one cannot immediately donate it ie. no boltsnaps or stuffing it in a pocket. Sidemount and independent double divers often discuss how to secure the reg they are not using in some quick release method. Yet people will suggest turning off ponies - which flies in the face of this paradigm.
That is because the whole idea of charging and turning off a bottle comes from the technical realm and not the recreational realm and is a practice developed under very different circumstances. People are transposing a set of SOP's from one realm to the other without considering the parameters that they were developed in. I have already listed them: that you don't just go to a bottle when you have an acute issue - you isolate and breath backgas, that bottles often contain different gasses, that reg hoses are traced back to source, that bottle contents are verified before breathing.
Auxiliary bottle use in the technical realm has it's own set of paradigms that technical divers would not suggest altering by transposing recreational SOP's. Imagine a rec diver suggesting leaving deco bottles on and just going to them in an OOA event. Tech divers would howl and list the reasons why that violates the paradigm of safety that they function under. Yet those same divers suggest turning pony bottles off in the rec realm without considering the paradigm that those divers function under.
I call BS and provide the challenge.
Here's another question that illustrates the logic error:
In the technical realm most divers use isolation manifold doubles and leave the isolator valve open (other than Akimbo who is the only person I have ever heard advocate progressive isolation). When they have a failure they go through a valve shutdown to isolate that failure. Why don't they just dive with the isolator closed. This would ensure they have a reserve that would not be lost due to accidental freeflow and they should be able to open the isolator during a failure. If you think about it that is what is being suggested to the rec diver. To that diver, the pony is akin to the left side of the doubles rig. It is left open and ready to go to just as the doubles are. Suggesting otherwise is like me suggesting doubles divers close the isolator as a routine SOP during the dive.
I think you're over complicating the problem (at least for me). An increasing number of "recreational" divers dive with a long hose/bungeed secondary configuration. This is 'rec' not 'tech'
My pony is for poo-hits-the-fan events and is not part of my gas plan. It is not a deco bottle and holds only air. I don't count on my dive buddy for gas, and the regulator is charged (sealed diaphragm first stage) to prevent water incursion and unnecessary service. The tank is off so that some sort unplanned free-flow of the pony doesn't degrade my emergency gas.