Wow!! In my 20 years of diving, I guess I never learned how to properly weight myself (sarcasm). Thanks so much for making that assumption. I guess I'll dump some of the bricks and rocks out of my BC pockets and see if that helps (sarcasm again).
Seriously though, when I have a 7mil wetsuit on, I don't have the forward-down push problem. Maybe you have more belly flotation than I do. But I most frequently dive with a shorty and almost no weight at all. That's when I have the problem. You can love your back-inflate if you want to, but I don't have to. Dive with what's comfortable for you, not what someone else tells you is cool.