I had I idea i was not the norm. I must have spent weeks reading and referencing diving and intended to carry on. Do people really just get the card and that's it off they go? To me that's just crazy/suicidal / dumb. Seriously?
Yes. They are unaware of the dangers. I was told to not frighten students with why they would want to be able to recover and clear their mask. "Oh that is going to happen to me and I'm scared now." I don't buy that for a second. Being underwater isn't inherently safe. We make it as safe as possible through training, equipment, and good judgment.
If folks are really that slack about basic scuba then all the instructors across all the agencies must be doing a bloody good job (on average). If the only training people are bothering with is just getting a card then then they must be otherwise floating bodies would be everywhere?
Those who are just diving for experiences go through DSD or OW and dive once on vacation and never dive again.
I don't think that instructors are doing all that great of a job. It is extreme cases where there is bad judgment where bad things can happen. Or simply bad luck (heart attack during a dive for an example).