DocVikingo:
No reason to start a separate thread just for search updates of the sort you posted, so I have merged this with the original posting on Dan & Danielle's disappearance.
Long as I'm here, since you object to medic_diver45's remarks, largely on the basis that he appears to be an inexperienced diver and isn't a medical doctor, let me offer that I may pass the muster on both of those criteria being a certified diver for over 30 years and a licensed doctor for over 28. Also, I knew Dan, we were fellow Vietnam vets, from the same part of the US, dove together, I had met Lynette, Alesi & his young sons, etc.
I very strongly agree with medic_diver45. I personally think that this search situation has crossed the line into the obsessional. I also don't think anyone is serving the best interests of all involved by continued fanning of wildly unrealistic hopes and the spending of money that might be more usefully applied elsewhere, such as supporting Dan's family, starting a school fund for Cody & Dakota, or the like
Hopefully, I'm mistaken, but given that they now have been missing for nearly 6 weeks without a scintilla of evidence that they are still alive, I very, very much doubt it.
Best regards.
DocVikingo
Doc,
With apologies to Tonya and other family members who monitor this thread . . . I completely agree with your assessment, Doc.
You have to ask yourself, if they are alive, where are they? There are two choices:
In the water, or on Land.
If in the water, I am sure we can all agree that there is no chance they could have survived much beyond the first couple of days. Or even that long.
If on land, then where are they? As one person pointed out, this isn't the far side of the moon. I don't personally know if this is true, but he/she also pointed out that there just aren't any islands that don't have some traffic from week-to-week. If they somehow made it to an island they surely wouldn't be hiding, they would have made some attempt to signal others if they were able. And the notion that their signals would go unseen after six weeks stretches credulity.
If they were not able to signal then how -- tough as it is to consider this -- could they survive very long? It was appropriate to pull out all the stops to look for them in the beginning in the hope that they had been pulled out by the currents and possibly were set ashore on some other island, but now, six weeks in, how can we realistically consider such an outcome?
I know it's hard when there is no evidence of what happened to them -- that must be the most difficult thing of all. And I think it is wonderful that so many have shared their concern and tried to help.
But Doc and medic_diver45 are correct. It's time to let the families grieve and consider what can be done to help them. They are the ones who need help now. If they want to keep on hoping then that is their right. But it's too easy for those of us who are not there, sitting safe and comfortable at home to keep saying, "they could make it!"
I don't know what happened that day. None of us do. They probably had a diving accident of some kind that involved one diver and the other diver tried to help and they both perished.
I personally think it was cruel for a psychic to imply they were alive and injured. And I also think that continuing to encourage the families to hope on into the future is not an act of kindness. People need to grieve. I grieve for Dan's loss -- he was a good person who brought a lot of happiness to a lot of people and he will be missed.
And if I'm wrong, then that's egg I will gladly wear. Lastly, does anyone know if a fund for Dan's kids has been set up?
JoeL