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Jim Lapenta

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Many of the members of this board know my wife has Muscular Dystrophy and is in a wheelchair. A few of them know that Wednesday we had to hospitalize her. She contracted double pneumonia and was not in good shape. Thankfully the antibiotics are working. Yesterday however the Dr came in and gave us some other news. Due to the progression of her MD her ability to swallow and clear her throat is seriously compromised. She had vocal cord surgery 2 years ago and it worked for a time but that time is now past.

So probably on Tuesday they are going to put a feeding tube into her abdomen. We have known that at some point this would be necessary but were hoping it would be a few more years down the road. The good news is that by doing it now we greatly reduce the risk of another episode like this that she may not be able to pull through as successfully. The tube they will put in will be flush with the skin and still enable her to occasionally take a few bites of something she really wants but not have to rely on for getting all the nutrients she needs. That now is not happening and to postpone it could result in her going downhill overall very quickly.

I don't have all the info but the research I've done suggests that she can do very well with this and we can still do all the things we enjoy doing with a few adjustments. We are planning a cruise to the Bahamas in May/ June. No reason we still cannot do it according to the doctor. As a result for the next week or so I may be able to respond as quickly as I usually do to requests for info and questions. I am going to cross post this in the SEI forum but with a few changes to not violate the TOS. Thanks to all for your understanding and support. Right now I'm hanging in for the most part but there times when it gets iffy. Should anyone wish to send a card to her as she is not on her comp much these days ( I hope that changes when she gets home) you can send it to :
Denise Churney
614 McNary Ave
Canonsburg, Pa 15317

She gets a great deal of joy out of looking and reading Christmas cards and any card with cats on it. Thanks again
Jim Lapenta
 
We'll keep you and you wife in our thoughts! Wishing her a very speedy recovery!!!
 
Jim,

Our thoughts are with you and your family. Wishing you the best, in making her comfortable, and making the most of your lives together.

Joyce and Mike
 
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

FWIW, my mother had a feeding tube attached to her abdomen about two years ago (she suffers from Parkinsons). She has been able to carry on life as usual since then.

God bless you and your family.
 
Jim, thank you for sharing your life with us. I have lots of love to give and would love to give your wife some. I will do it tomorrow. my heart is with you during this time of trial and my hopes are that she has a quality of life that lets you and she continue to laugh and love.

all my best
wendy
 
Jim, my best thoughts are with you guys. They do the PEG tubes nowadays by endoscopy, which means a very brief procedure and rapid recovery. Better nutrition will do nothing but help your wife.
 
Likewise in my thoughts too Jim...Best wishes for a speedy and successful recovery.
 
Jim, sometimes it is true that terrible things happen to good people. You and your wife are in my prayers.
 

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