hopashore
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Hello all,
Three and a half years ago my mom died while we were scuba diving.
I haven't dived since then, and am beginning to realize that I still really want to. But I'm not sure the best way to go about it.
I think I need to take a basic diving course again,
1) because it's been three and a half years
2) because I'm a little anxious about the possibility of having a flashback or panic attack and being a little scared and do something dumb and I'd rather deal with that in a pool and with a professional than in the open water with a potential stranger
and 3) because I don't think I'd feel comfortable diving with anyone I was with on the trip where my mom died, which leaves me not really knowing anyone who dives anymore and I don't know how comfortable I would be being open with a stranger on a boat that I have "diving baggage"
So that being said,
how have other people found themselves feeling about diving after a bad incident? If you've gone through it, what were the hardest parts for you? I'd rather be as prepared as possible. Is it a good idea for me to even consider this? I'm a little concerned about worrying my family as well :/
And all this is a little long term...I'm a graduate student which means almost no extra money But if anyone knows any good dive instructors/places in or near North Carolina, that would be wonderful as well.
Thanks for reading!
Kara
Three and a half years ago my mom died while we were scuba diving.
I haven't dived since then, and am beginning to realize that I still really want to. But I'm not sure the best way to go about it.
I think I need to take a basic diving course again,
1) because it's been three and a half years
2) because I'm a little anxious about the possibility of having a flashback or panic attack and being a little scared and do something dumb and I'd rather deal with that in a pool and with a professional than in the open water with a potential stranger
and 3) because I don't think I'd feel comfortable diving with anyone I was with on the trip where my mom died, which leaves me not really knowing anyone who dives anymore and I don't know how comfortable I would be being open with a stranger on a boat that I have "diving baggage"
So that being said,
how have other people found themselves feeling about diving after a bad incident? If you've gone through it, what were the hardest parts for you? I'd rather be as prepared as possible. Is it a good idea for me to even consider this? I'm a little concerned about worrying my family as well :/
And all this is a little long term...I'm a graduate student which means almost no extra money But if anyone knows any good dive instructors/places in or near North Carolina, that would be wonderful as well.
Thanks for reading!
Kara