I think it might be useful to correct some misimpressions and misinformation, if the OP is to make an informed decision. I don't have a particular investment in what BCD he ultimately selects, but it would seem that misstatements should not interfere with the selection process.
Joris Vd:
During underwater exercises where you remove the bcd and put it back on I always feel like it does take me quite a bit longer to take of the bcd with the high sides. I haven't experienced it yet, but I feel like in a high stress situation in a real dive it might restrict me partially if time is of the essence.
It is important to understand that the scuba unit remove and replace is NOT an emergency exercise. Dropping your weight belt might be considered an emergency exercise. I cannot speak specifically for CMAS performance standards, but in all of the various agency curricula I am familiar with, there is no time requirement for performing the skill. So, how fast you could perform that skill should NOT be a selection criteria in choosing a BCD.
Snoweman:
If you get a backplate BCD, I'm not sure I would consider it to be super airline friendly for travel. A steel backplate could easily add 10 - 12, or more, pounds to your bag. You might find a carbon fiber backplate, but that adds $$$.
I regularly travel, internationally, with a steel backplate. I find it to be super friendly for air travel. Yes, the plate is 6lbs, and the SS waist strap buckle and D-rings may add another 1-1.5 lbs. I am not sure where the notion of ’10 - 12 lbs, or more’ comes from.
Snoweman:
Also, using the crotch strap will also add a level of difficulty to your task.
Adding a crotch strap to a BCD does not increase the difficulty of performing a scuba unit remove and replace, any more than having a chest strap (which many jacket BCDs, but very few backplates, have) might do. A properly executed 'scuba unit remove and replace' is performed in a deliberate, methodical and fluid manner. Having a crotch strap - which offers considerable benefit in term of scuba unit stability in the water - merely means that you have a possible extra step in the removal, and in the replacement.
Snoweman:
The back inflate naturally pitches you forward, instead of bobbing upright.
This is another one of those myths that seems to periodically pop up on SB. A back-inflate BCD
may create a feeling of pitching you forward, if you are
overweighted, OR your weight is
improperly distributed. If you are properly weighted, and that weight is properly distributed for optimal trim, you will not have that sensation.
Joris Vd:
I'm just wondering if the people at my diving club won't look at me like I'm some crazy person if I tell them I've bought a backplate + wing as a beginner...
I would hope that would not be the case. But, the reaction of others will usually depend on their extent of knowledge, and breadth of experience. So, if members of your dive club do have some reasonable breadth of knowledge and diving experience, they are more likely to commend you on your choice. In contrast, if they look at you like you have sprouted a second head then you have a good indication that you are diving with relatively inexperienced, or very narrow-minded, club mates, and you should probably consider anything they say about diving and equipment in the context of that source.