I guess, having heard from both sides, there is little left to say. Further bashing and arguing won't go anywhere good. It seems that there was a mis-communication here and no fraud or deceit. I don't feel like it is my place to tell other people how to live, or how to dive. I do things differently than you and your son, but there are those here that would think badly of me just for diving with a pre-teen. You have to have a pretty thick skin on this forum.